Sunday, February 15, 2009

8 months

One day at my mother in law's house, I decided I wanted baby pictures of Nathan. I was curious about what he looked like as a baby and who looks like him the most. I found a picture of him trying to stand up with only a diaper on. Later on, I found Hailey and I in the same position.

So here we are all around 8 months.

Audrey
Nathan
Hailey
Robert

Big Changes

So, I've had a very difficult week and a half. It all started at my WIC appointment when I was told my baby fell of his growth curve. Robert weighed 18 lbs and I was happy about that. It took Hailey 15 or 16 months to get to that weight. The WIC lady told me I need to add another meal to our schedule and that I shouldn't cut back on nursing him.

(*Quick Side Note: For this semester we have a sweet little girl, Chloe coming to our house after school for two hours everyday. She is in second grade and we love having her over. However, this still makes my afternoons busy so I stopped nursing Robert in the afternoon. Really it's only a three hour span and that's a normal schedule for babies. This is also supposed to help him eat a dinner and drink juice from a bottle. Also after Christmas he got his two front teeth and they hurt me while nursing.*)

I was a bit bummed because feeding my kids solids is a pain and if they won't eat they won't eat. The only thing that Robert would eat well is yogurt, up to this point. So I went to the store got him more finger food and PediSure. For the next day or two I tried really hard to offer him more food and I think a good portion actually went in.

We continued our pattern about feeding him dinner, having both kids take a bath, and then I nurse Robert to sleep. Wednesday night Robert was just throwing a fit so I tried to nurse him to help calm him down and he wouldn't eat. So I ran down stairs got him PediSure and he guzzled that down. I thought maybe since he's happier he'll nurse now but he wouldn't. I cried for an hour after because I was not sure what to do. Nursing was the main way I could interact with him. He nursed about 8 times a day for the past ten months. I didn't know what else to do with him. The way Nathan looks at how I felt was that it is like hating your job but still trying your best, and then being fired all of a sudden. I knew we were going to quit soon but I was the one who was supposed to say when.

Here's my big dilemma: Robert is 10 months old. He is not supposed to drink whole milk or PediSure until he is a year old. Also I don't want him to get stuck on formula when we have to change it again in two months. Also with formula he would need a bottle since we have to measure out the water amount. He is doing a good job with his sippy cups I don't want to get him stuck on a bottle.

Decision: We'll do PediSure and whole milk.

Robert reaction: He only likes PediSure.

The next night he started crying an hour after we put him down for bed. He doesn't do that. When I checked on him, he had a very harsh chest cough and was burning up. I raised his crib on a slant, put the humidifier on, and gave him meds. The next few days all he did was cry and sleep a lot. More sleeping then crying thank goodness. And of course he had diarrhea (I think it might have been from the whole milk), and so I had to change sheets a lot.

I think it was on Tuesday we I noticed that three teeth popped through. So now he has three teeth on top and four on bottom. I definitely don't want to nurse him with that many teeth.

Wednesday I was sick of the house and Robert seemed better so we all went to the mall's play area. Robert threw up once just a little. Hailey just found a friend there so we stayed a little longer. Then Robert really started throwing up. (About 4 times (all over me) before we could get Hailey's coat and shoes on.) Then Thursday afternoon Robert cried for two hours in my arms while Hailey was trying to take her nap. I had Nate come home at 4:00pm to help after that. Then Friday morning again he cried for two hours. I thought he was getting better because he was less congested. But I was done with this so we went to the doctor's. Robert has an ear infection. Also I checked his weight and he lost about 8 oz in less then 2 weeks. I asked the doctor about my milk/formula age dilemma and he told me to do formula.

Follow up: That night we gave him one dose of his prescription and he has been happy since. We are giving him formula now but he won't take it unless it has a little bit of PediSure with it. We have a follow up appointment with the doctor in two weeks. I hope he'll weigh more by then.

Also all my hormones levels are back to normal and I can go back to the gym on Tuesday. I'm excited about these changes but it was a tough transition.

Thursday, December 4, 2008

Rub-a-Rub Two in a Tub

Here are cute pictures of Hailey and Robert playing together.

Hailey was the one who put the necklaces on Robert.

Preschool Pumpkin Patch

Hailey was apart of the neighborhood preschool for a short amount of time. One of the field trips she was able to go on was to a pumpkin patch.

First they graped hay stalks and had an opportunity to feed the horse, pigs, or calves. The owner also brought a duck and a chicken around to the kids so that they could pet them.

Then we went through the corn maze. When the was a division on the path, they had a question that if you got correctly you could move forward. If you guessed wrong, the path led you to a road block and you had to back track.
For some strange reason Hailey is holding onto her hat and covering her face. She also fussed a lot and wanted to be held. By the time we got out of it, my arms were killing me from holding both kids.

Here's a picture of the preschool bunch.

We also got a small one dollar pumpkin at the end of the corn maze.
This tiny pumpkin made three cups of pumpkin with which I made a yummy pumpkin dessert following Eve's (my sister-in-law) recipe for Thanksgiving.

More Pictures from Gramma and Grampa's house

Hailey likes to get on my lap whenever I'm on the computer, so we generally look her pictures of Hailey on the blog. We got to the Omaha Zoo pictures and she pointed out gramma and grampa. She also said she wanted to give grampa a hug. It was really cute, so I decided to post more pictures of her experience at gramma's and grampa's.
They had a play kitchen, so Hailey put on the apron and chef's hat. She has a very good imagination, it blows me aware sometimes.
Hailey also made good friends with Kyle. He's a very good uncle to her.
One Saturday, mom and I left to get pedicures. When we can back Hailey wanted her toes painted too.
She's not allowed to have her fingernails painted yet because she sucks the paint right off.
Hailey is also very observant.
I thought this was a very funny picture because that is truly how I hold Robert. She's such a good mommy.
I'm glad to see the kids playing together. Sometimes in a cramped apartment it seems like they just fight over the same toy.
Gramma has pretty cute bath toys that they liked to play with.
These two toys were are from my childhood days. Some toys just never go out of fashion.

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Robert is turning into a very handsome boy. He loves toys that are musical, so this is his favorite toy right now.
He also is trying to climb up on things and can even pull himself up.
Here's Robert doing yoga stretches before he takes off crawling.

Robert is doing so well at crawling now. It's unbelievable how quickly they grow up and progress. I still miss my little baby.

Monday, November 3, 2008

Halloween

For Halloween Hailey was a Ballerina. For her ballerina hairstyle, I did a crown of hair in little hairbands then had the rest in a curly ponytail. After that I added the final touches on hair bows.
Hailey surprisingly, stayed very still while I did this (Pooh was on). The only bad thing was taking it all out at the end of the day. She screamed bloody murder (she doesn't scream like that for shots) so it made me feel really bad. Does anyone have tips on how to get the hairbands out easily?
It's so hard to get a good picture of Hailey. When she notices I'm trying to take a picture of her, she wants to see the picture before I take it. So, these are the best shots I could get.
This pretty tutu was made by Darlene. It's seven layers of gold tulle with tiny red flowers on the bottom. Also there is a bigger flower in the middle of the ribbon on the top. It turned out so cute. Thanks for making it, Darlene. Here is my cute little Dinosaur. He was in a pumpkin outfit during the day but blew out of his diaper in the outfit before I thought about taking pictures. From 3-6pm the businesses downtown were passing out candy so a friend of mine with our kids went down before we headed off to the church's trunk-or-treat. Hailey was more interested in eating the candy and running around then saying "Treat-or-Treat" and her "Thank yous".
She also would get close to other kids and expect candy from them. Too bad it doesn't work like that.

Here's Robert's little Trick-or-Treat buddy, Brian with his dad Nick.

Halloween was a lot of fun but a long day. There was a chili dinner and a small carnival in the church when trunk-or-treat was over. Robert was crawling around and fell on one of the metal chairs, he scraped his head was very tired. (He goes to bed around 6pm and wakes up between 6-7am.)

Now that Halloween is done, the year will quickly came to an end with Thanksgiving and Christmas break coming up soon.