To me a due date is a deadline that the baby can't cross. She must be out before then and a week early is preferred. Hailey was a day late with contractions started at 6:00am. We went to the hospital around 11am and she was born at 4:30pm. Robert was a week early with contractions starting around 8 or 9am. We went to the hospital around 5pm and he was born at 7:30pm.
So, my hope was that Hannah came exactly a week early on Tuesday Dec. 8
th. It's two days after St. Nick's Day and before St. Lucia's Day. However, Nathan had a big presentation in one of his classes at 9:30am and it would have been difficult to find someone to cover Nathan's class he teaches on Wednesday morning. So, we decided Friday, Dec. 11
th would be the best day. If Hannah came on Friday then Darlene and Wayne could be with the kids over night and all day Saturday. The thought of her coming on or after her due date, Dec 15
th, (also Nathan's birthday) was not an option.
I went to my doctor's appointment that Tuesday (the 8
th) and the doctor said I was dilated to a 3 and 50% effaced. We both believed that I would go into labor any day but still set up an appointment for the 15
th.
We had everything ready and committed to going to nothing since we were going to have a baby. Luckily, this being the holiday season there were a lot of events to go to. On Thursday, I went to a Relief Society Meeting (enrichment) about giving. There were a lots of cookies there and I was able to bring home two plates full which is wonderful for this very pregnant lady.
Friday, I brought the kids to a playgroup at the commons and was able to send out the last of our Christmas gifts. On Saturday, I met with a friend who is helping me make Christmas stockings. She also helped me learn more about my sewing machine which was really neat.
Saturday night was our ward Christmas party. Free food, company, and a chance for our kids to run around was want our family greatly needed. There was a really good Santa there which Hailey was so excited about. Robert also waited patiently in line (which is amazing for his age). Hailey was very shy when she sat on his lap and then Robert was put there too so we could get a picture of them with Santa. Robert screamed his head off. I didn't have my camera so we hope to get the pictures soon from someone else.
Sunday was St. Lucia's Day. So I cooked scrambled eggs, cinnamon rolls, and sausage. I've always liked this holiday because I love breakfast food. My parents have a St. Lucia crown that my sister and I took turns wearing to wake up the family for breakfast. I'm excited for the year that Hailey will be old enough to help me cook, set the table, and when she wakes everyone up while I pretend to be asleep in my bed.
Monday was supposed to be our ward Family Home Evening but it was canceled due to the lack of people still around.
And though all these events there was no baby. I was very depressed by that thought going to bed each night and waking up to no contractions. More then just wanting this baby out and starting our new life together, I noticed a decrease in movement. It didn't bother me until it hit on Sunday that I really should be feeling her more.
On Monday, I kept track of when I felt her and on average it was only once an hour except between 4 and 6pm, she moved off and on frequently. My prayers changed into "please let her be healthy, let her make it, let me know when there is a serious problem" instead of "can we have her now since it would
convenient for me."